HOW TO UNDERSTAND: IS A PERSON FIT FOR YOU?
The golden formula of compatibility
When you fulfill your next “soul mate”, you most likely believed: “This is, in general, my male? How do I understand if we can do something with him? How soon will we bother each other?”
We do not know what to try to find when conference. We can alter from 10 to 20 “2nd halves” up until we really discover our own person … And then, unexpectedly, again, this is this: “Oh, you vile, horrible, insensitive monster! I’m moving to deal with my mom! ”
Buddies who are drawn to polyamory don’t have to worry about compatibility. However if you wish to develop an actually deep, intriguing relationship with one person, it is better to understand who is who and how to determine your compatibility.
THERE IS AN EXIT
The golden formula of compatibility looks like this:
COMPATIBILITY = GIVING + ACCEPTING + UNDERSTANDING
1. PROVIDING: giving is something that a person easily and naturally shares; what he continuously releases. It can be emotionality, jokes, care, or purchasing of area, it can be simply practical assistance, or he is ready to shower with concepts, motivate and inspire. One method or another, each person has his own “wave” on which he radiates – this is what comes from him, what he offers.
2. ACCEPT: acceptance is what a person desires to receive from others. This is something for which he himself does not have the capability or strength, since each people experiences a kind of “vacuum”, open requirements in different areas of life. Here it is the very same: someone lacks emotions, somebody lacks order, somebody needs aid in daily matters, somebody does not have mental care, and so on. This is what we want to accept.
3. UNDERSTAND: Understanding is the capability of someone to correctly translate the speech, motives and actions of another. This is the capability to hear, see and comprehend exactly what our interlocutor wished to tell us by his actions or words.
COMPATIBILITY is … this is … Wikipedia, tell me!
“Psychological compatibility is an attribute of long-lasting interaction between 2 or more individuals, in which the symptoms of stable character traits particular of these individuals do not lead to long-term and insoluble contradictions without external interference. ”
Simply put, compatibility is when your and his/ her behaviour and character qualities do not piss you off. And if, sometimes, it is annoying – you can solve the issue together without resorting to outdoors assistance.
HOW DOES THIS FORMULA WORK?
WHAT an individual can GIVE or RECEIVE – does not come from no place! This is determined by our inherent nature, our mental, or even socionic type!
In other words, there are 16 kinds of people. They each have their own strengths and weak points. For the strong, we easily and with enjoyment provide, and for the weak, we are thankful to accept! I discussed this in detail in my YouTube video “8 languages of love”
To put it simply, then: understanding the type of person, you can reliably forecast what qualities he will reveal, and what he will naturally provide … It will also be clear what he does not have – this is what he will ACCEPT with appreciation.… Read the rest